I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

That's because ugly guys a lot of them are overconfident. All of that food and laziness? They built up energy inside of them to expel it on some unsuspecting woman like myself. And actually a long time ago, fat guys for example, they were seen as royalty or people with a lot of money because obviously you can't get that fat unless you have the food to get that way and you can't get the food unless you have the money.

I've unfortunately had the unpleasurable experience of being chased by a really gross big type guy that was some guy that was nasty guy from his office. But now, I just reject. And I've allowed myself to do so without feeling guilty because I don't want to be pressured into dating somebody that I don't want to date or somebody that's going to corrupt me or try to corrupt me or somebody that's going to be gross around me and stuff like that.

A long long time ago, there was a time and this was when I was still drinking, but a long long time ago there was a time when I actually remember equating big or fat guys with more success or more money. Not that I was chasing them for their money but just they come across as people that were either like directors of their companies or CEOs or people that just came from wealthy families where their families spoiled them or something. But I actually remember feeling that way a long time ago, about fat or big big guys. Because obviously you can't get that big and have enough time and energy to get that big unless you have the time and energy and money to do so.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

I want to be able to date a really gorgeous guy without feeling suppressed or restrained from being myself. I really want to feel that and I really want my next boyfriend hopefully really gorgeous, to accept me with all of everything that I have. You know what I mean like all of my flaws or all of my corks or whatever. I have been able to feel really comfortable around a really gorgeous guy? But I still feel a little bit trained because I'm scared because I feel like the guy is going to reject me for someone else because he happens to be so gorgeous. And so he obviously has choices if he's handsome. But I want to be able to like be myself around a really gorgeous guy because I know that's a challenge for me and it is a challenge for me because sometimes I do get scared of gorgeous guys. Only because I feel like I'm going to like them and then they're going to see something about me that they don't like and then you know what I mean? So my challenge is is to be able to just be myself around them and I just really wish that they would just still love me anyway. That may or may not be asking too much. I don't know but I just don't want to feel like repressed or whatever it's called around a gorgeous boyfriend. I don't want to feel like I can't be myself. But that's not going to be a reason why I'm going to go out with an ugly guy but I want to be able to like talk to a gorgeous guy the same way that I talk to an ugly guy. Because the ugly guys, a lot of girls like me, we tend to be more open and you know talkative and ourselves. And I wish I could talk to the gorgeous guy that in the same way that I do with some ugly guys. But then again, the fact that some gorgeous guys do not react the same way that ugly guys do when I am being myself. That's better than two is because they seem to react differently. And some of them don't like it when a girl is being too over the top? And they would rather have a very mellow type.